Tsuma Ni Damatte Sokubaikai Ni Ikun Ja Nakatta [top] -
Tsuma Ni Damatte Sokubaikai Ni Ikun Ja Nakatta [top] -
Tsuma means "wife" or "spouse."
ni is a particle indicating the direction or the target of an action.
damatte is the imperative form of dameru, which means "to shut up" or "be quiet." So, damatte means "shut up" or "be silent."
sokubaikai can be interpreted as "to go to a secret meeting" or could imply going to a place without telling anyone, possibly with a nuance of it being a bad or shameful action.
ni again indicates direction or target.
ikun is the imperative form of iku, which means "to go." So, ikun means "go."
ja (or jā) is a casual way of saying desu (polite form), used for making a statement or giving a command in a casual setting. It can be translated to "is" or used for emphasis.
nakatta is the negation of datta (the past tense of de aru), meaning "was not" or indicating negation in the past.
Do not force it. But once, and only once, say: “I would genuinely like you to come next time. You don’t have to buy anything. Just see what I enjoy.”